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Anger and Distance Relationship

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A theology professor was teaching about anger,  he asked his students, "why do we shout in anger?  Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?" The students thought for a while. One of them answered, because we lose our calm, we shout for that. 'But why shout when the other person is just next to you?' Asked the professor . "Isn't it possible to speak to him or  her with a soft voice? Why do we shout when you are angry? " The students gave some answers but none satisfied the Proffessor. Finally he explained, "when two people are angry at each other ,  their hearts psychologically distance themselves.  To cover the distance they must shout to hear each other t hrough that great distance." Then the Proffessor asked, "what happens when two people love each other ? They don't shout at eachother but talk softly, why?  because their hearts are psychologically close.  The distance between them is